Four NEWs for a Happier YOU!
Happy New Year!
I love the word NEW!
New friend, new idea, new show, new start… YOUR Happy NEW Year!
Make NEW work for you!
Here are 4 NEWs for a Happier YOU this New Year!
- “New” feels like ‘second chance’
Let’s be real here – sometimes it’s a third, fourth, or even an “I’m trying again” chance (think the gym). This time of year can feel exhilarating, but it can also remind you of what STILL hasn’t changed. As you age, you begin to recognize the attitudes, actions, and beliefs that shape you – both your gifts and your challenges.
The goal isn’t to say, “That’s just me, and I’ll probably always X.” Instead, aim for broader goals that allow for growth:
“In 2025, I give myself permission to prioritize self-care, whether that’s taking short walks or choosing water more often.”
If “I’ll go to the gym four days a week and drink ten glasses of water daily” hasn’t worked in the past, find a NEW way to embrace your ‘second chance’… and be HAPPY about it!
- “New” changes your outlook (Yep, a Marcy Mindset Message!)
Reflecting on what went well and what you wish had been different is only meaningful if it shifts your thinking. “It was because…” excuses keep you stuck. Instead, declare NOW what will be different a year from now. WRITE out these as declarations of what has already happened in the coming year.
Together, my wonderful husband Ken and I created 14 declarations for what will have changed by January 1, 2026. In January 2025, we’re writing:
“It’s now January 1, 2026. 1. We have replaced the family room carpet – it’s beautiful. 2. We have lived our faith. 3. Marcy is so much more effective, her office free of clutter and last-minute syndrome thanks to her new COO hire.”
By putting these declarations out there, you set intentions, and remarkably, the actions to fulfill them show up!
- “New” can include “Old”
Change can be both exciting and overwhelming. While rapid, dramatic change might pave the way to “better,” it can also create uncertainty and fear. Tradition offers comfort and continuity in the face of change.
For example, in-person events will always hold value. While I’ll never live stream my band from the bar, short videos of us playing have become a regular feature on Facebook. Similarly, direct mail remains impactful when combined with email and social media.
Traditions foster shared meaning and connection. When you embrace both traditions and change, you find balance and happiness. Take time to identify and preserve the ones most meaningful to you, your family, and your donors.
- “New” says, “No More.”
NEW can mean letting go. Perhaps it’s saying, “No more overworking to the point of burnout.” You know when you’ve crossed the line into self-decay.
I absolutely LOVE my life – supporting clients, singing in my band, and being with family. But I’ve also realized I’ve been sacrificing rest, reading, and simply enjoying life. That’s changing. I’ve started scheduling these things: walking, movies, and even gym time with my son David and his girlfriend – a double gift in the same amount of time!
Little shifts can lead to big differences. For me, it’s also about investing in help for those pieces I don’t like or I am not good at. No more letting small tasks rob the joy of big achievements. This year, a project manager or COO or Executive Assistant will help me keep the details in check. I will find that person!
So, for YOU, what is NEW?
- What are your broader goals for growth?
- What declarations will be true by January 1, 2026?
- Which traditions will you hold onto for comfort and joy?
- What actions will you take, and what will you say “No More” to?
Take a moment to jot down what resonates with you!
May you truly have a Happy NEW Year.
Know that what you do every day brings joy and gratitude, rippling out to so many others.
I sincerely appreciate you.
Thank you.
May you THRIVE in 2025!
Invest in Joy™
