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Are You ON FIRE With The Possibilities?

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As you move forward this fall, are you embracing the upcoming special holidays, sports and year-end fundraising tasks with excitement?

 Or, are you pulling out last year’s agendas and plans, digging out last year’s decorations and putting them up in the same places with a sigh, “Where did the summer go?”

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Here’s a few thoughts on how you can embrace opportunity:

1. Stir Yourself Up!  We must be willing to ask, “How can I show up every day filled with life and excitement about the work I GET to do?”  Don’t wait for your boss, your spouse, your donors or someone else to get you excited – Stir yourself up!

 2. Scrap the old, “If it ain’t broke, don’t fix it” mentality.  If an event or process is just going along because you’ve “always done it that way,” SHAKE IT UP! Keep some things ‘comfortable’ for your participants (say… where they park) but make the rest of the experience sizzle with new energy!  If your personal relationships have turned sort of ho-hum (like your marriage), DO YOUR PART to initiate some excitement!

3. Start right now. Do something differently on the very next call you make.  What separates the really successful people is that they immediately IMPLEMENT something new consistently.

4. Be ok with Messy. Be ok perhaps making a mess of it. Life, and any action, is a process. You don’t arrive. Accept that it may be a bit wonky and that will feel uncomfortable. Same old, same old is boring. Don’t ask, “What if this goes wrong?” ask instead, “Why not try it and see?”   

5. “I Create My Life.” Start every single day declaring this out loud. Take back the knowledge that you create everything that is in your life. Life doesn’t happen to you.  You choose how you think about it, the words you use around it and how you will react.

Are you ON FIRE with the possibilities?

Go get it – your life, I mean.  Remember…I am dedicated to your delight and fulfillment as you embrace this honorable and noble profession.

Invest in Joy!

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Must Have Skills for Rock Star Fundraising Success

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Do you have these fundraising success traits?  Some things you just have to “be” instead of “know.”

Here are 8 Personal ‘Must Have’ Skills for Rock Star Development Success

1. A Healthy Ego

A healthy ego – that is – a mind that directs its thinking – gives us the ability to withstand the many “no’s” we get along the way to our many “yes’s”.  It allows us to review “no’s” and profit from the analysis. Perhaps we might better tell our story or manage our time to better engage more folks. Or, we might cast off our fear of “rejection” and the time wasted on the “drama de jour.” It also lets us buy-in to our unique place in the process – one that has us sharing or totally giving away “credit” to a volunteer or leader for a job we have actually done well. In fact, doing it well means others felt THEY did it!

2. Passion for your organization’s work

In his leadership Ted Talk, Simon Sinek says, “People don’t buy WHAT you do; they buy WHY you do it.”  I believe this means that donors don’t GIVE to WHAT you do, they GIVE because of WHY you do it.   When we lead our relationship building with our sincere passion to share why we do what we do, instead of our numbers and needs, we create lifelong donor relationship success.

3. People Orientation

You need to sincerely like people – talking with, and learning about, other people. Not in a snoopy way and not only because they have something you want (money, influence, connections) but because you genuinely want a win-win relationship with the other person. You need to be a likable person – fun, pleasant, positive, polite.

4. Goal Orientation

While a people-orientation is critical, you must also have a passion to accomplish goals driven by your beliefs. Taking responsibility for a certain level of activity – visits, phone calls, letters, etc. – each month leads to success.  You can control activity, goals, and success. You can’t control someone being ready to say “yes” to your request. We know activity leads to giving success. So embrace this. I often encourage hiring another admin before another fundraiser so that current fundraisers can devote maximum time to the relationship and someone else can do the data entry and follow-up pieces as much as possible.

5. Empathy

Empathy is about standing in someone else’s shoes, feeling with her heart, seeing with her eyes. Empathy is hard to outsource and automate, but it makes the world a better place. We need this at two levels. As a major donor, how does it feel to be “liked” and paid attention to ONLY because you have money, connections, or influence others want? Are you dropped like a hot potato if your fortune turns?

As the “user” of your services, how does it feel to be a struggling student, addict, homeless person, abused person, sick person, struggling leader, or hungry person? Also, How does it feel to be a well-performing student, drug-free, sheltered, out of harm, healthy, strong, and fed?

Feel this without getting dramatic. Don’t take on your victim’s victim mentality.

6. Resilience

Resilience is defined as the capacity to recover quickly from difficulties; toughness or the ability of a substance or object to spring back into shape; elasticity. My coach, T Harv Eker, says it’s not the size of the problem; it’s the size of you. Think about things that totally threw you at one time and later you wondered why it was such a big deal. Exchange the dramatic overwhelm with vigor to generate possible solutions and seek advice from others (like donors) to help create “wins” from any perceived evil.  Just keep going.

7. Aggressive patience

It’s the giver’s timeline, not ours. Your campaign timeline, operations needs or annual goal, while urgent to you, may not coincide with your donor’s giving timeline. We must be aggressive in continuing to reach out, insert urgency, tell our story one more time or a bit differently, try a different partner, or whatever helps continue the conversation and the journey with our major givers….on their timeline.

8. Creativity

You may not realize this, but creativity is really about self-care. It is rest, food, family, space, exercise, quiet – whatever renews YOUR spirit so it can soar in a vibrant way for the joy of others. When events drain us, metrics overwhelm us, lost grants defeat us, and schedules exhaust us, it’s our cue to re-prioritize our work and life and narrow our focus. What aren’t we going to do so that our marvelous God-given brains can WOW in our world – for ourselves, our families and our donors?

So our take-away from this list?

You must earn the right to ask. Your givers have the right to enjoy their giving. People care about what you do, but give because of why you do it.

Thank you for being the GREAT PERSON you are and allowing me to stretch you a tiny bit more!

Invest in Joy!

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A Tale of Two Non-Profits

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Everyday you are a leader!

Leaders live life on their own terms. They don’t let circumstances plunge them into contracting. Leaders maximize what they have. They influence others to join in and can persuade others because they are confident they are on the right path.
Let me share a tale of two fictional non-profits.  Let’s say they are about the same size, similar budgets, and focus on educational experiences for youth. Both were looking at a $12 million goal over a period of time – a significant number. Both set out to increase major giving capacity. Both felt there were major donors that had not been engaged. Both were not crystal clear on how some prospective givers would invest. Neither had a history of clear major giving options and regular major gift asks or disciplined major gift practices.

Non Profit A

Non Profit A encountered a massive (almost $2 million) increase in the cost of a building project during the course of a campaign. These costs were explored but quickly we went to “This is the new number.” It’s a small shop. 2.5 people in advancement if you count the CEO.

What Happened?

The goal was increased by $2 Million. From $12.5M to $14.5M at a time when we were just over $9M raised and facing that last hardest final money to secure. This was the real number.

The new goal was announced in the monthly e-news.   This goes out to the Board, all major givers, all prospective givers, and all internal stakeholders. Message simply put, “It’s going to cost more, so we are going to raise more.”

Recommitted to major gift visits. The Chief Development Officer was inexperienced in major gifts and acknowledged getting off track with calls. We identified the distractions – (low-performing activities that seemed urgent) but then moved quickly onto solutions.  Two 3-hour blocks of time each week, away from the distractions of the office, was dedicated to refocus on moving major gifts forward.

Relationship Action Plans were updated and a specific ask date, project and amount noted.  Personal visits were the focus. No looking back, blaming and making up excuses on what didn’t happen prior.

An event and trip were dropped.  Time for personal leave to celebrate a major personal event stayed– life/work harmony is important.

Communicated excitement.  There is always a story to share.

Money already received was used.  This broke traditional “squirreling away” of gifts.  If dollars came in to support a young person and we had one that fit, it was spent and announced. Why give if it’s not used?  Can’t really be needed.

Look for amazing, wonderful surprises.  An unexpected gift came in, a new prospective giver ‘appeared’ during a function who had great capacity.

Volunteer help was embraced. We did not downsize support staff.

More time with counsel.  That’s what we are here for.

Non Profit B

Non-profit B also encountered an unexpected increase of expenses of over $150,000 to manage deferred maintenance, a decline in enrollment, a decline in revenue generated from outside sources, the end of two grants, and an increase in salaries due to some staffing changes. This was on top of an ambitious $12M overall goal that included new projects the Board wanted to pursue. (Many infrastructure costs were not included and some of these projects were added without clear staffing plans.) There were six folks who played some role in development.

What Happened?

Immediate crisis reduction in expenses. The Board panicked and directed the CEO to find immediate cuts to make up for a budget shortfall projected in the next year’s budget.  Support staff was reduced. All hiring, professional development, and travel was frozen.

The signature event that raised $300,000 was celebrated. Numbers were up, but the amount of staff/volunteer time was high and put major giving work on hold.

Development metrics were put into place to coincide with the new database recently up and running. Good move, but met with fear based on loose prior accountability. The board leadership pledged to support the team but the “budget shortfall” message added a feeling of desperation.

There was reluctance to ask. The event, after all, (with few gifts above $5000), was an ask. Options for giving were not clear. Endowments had been managed poorly with little communications to the donors.

Another event was planned. Yikes.

There was this sinking feeling. Key staff were involved in self-drama, personal problems and glued to screen. Bickering and criticism by staff became the norm.

Counsel was terminated with the expense reduction.  Of course – in challenging financial times, cut fundraising staff, hold another event and fire your consultant.

What’s the point?

  • The problem here is not the lack of resources; it’s a lack of resourcefulness.
  • It’s not the lack of solutions; it’s the lack of focus and confidence to pursue solutions.
  • It’s not the lack of a compelling story: it’s a constant undercurrent of negativity and desperation.
  • It’s leadership caring too much about what the board thinks: seeking approval from others reinforces the idea you need external validation.
  • It’s not the lack of opportunities for growth; it’s seeing only shortcomings. Focusing on limitations only builds their strength.
  • It’s not the lack of a bright future, it’s constantly reliving the past “good old days.” Bring your attention to the present moment and start building a better future.

Dial down the drama. Stressing and complaining about problems that don’t really matter just drains valuable energy you could be investing in good actions.

Non-profit A actually has the bigger challenge, but my vote is with them to make up what they lack in resources with a big dose of resourcefulness.

Where are you in this picture?  How are you contributing to your organization’s value and displaying your compelling confidence that you will stay the course and plant the flag on the moon?

Let me know if these tales reflect some of your experiences!

The unexpected tough surprises will always come, but so will the unexpected joys!  I’d look for the joys!

Invest in Joy!

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June 9, 2017
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Does Your Mindset Impact Your Life – And Your Fundraising Results?

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Since age 17, I’ve been fascinated with the power of our thoughts.  “We become what we think about!” It has more to do with how your life is going than anything else.

3 Ways Your Thinking Impacts Your Life and Your Fundraising Results

1. You CAN change your thoughtsMind

It’s important for you to simply acknowledge that your thinking impacts how you FEEL inside. Thoughts generate an emotional charge.

If you are thinking happy, positive thoughts, you will find that you’ll feel much happier. And if you are thinking sad or depressed thoughts, you’ll find yourself sinking lower and lower into pessimism.

If you are aware of your thoughts – then you can change them.

Think of a light switch – if a thought wanders into your mind that is unhappy, critical or disempowering, try saying to yourself –

“Nope, I’m not going there.”

breath2. Just breathe

Our breath is always right there…ready to give us pause to think, calm down, consider.

When you are triggered, you can sloooooow down the drama simply by taking a deep breath.

And do you know what?  Those around you will be triggered to breathe too! It’s also a “leadership: strategy.”

3. Choose your words carefully

There are SO many tools I could share, but for me, remembering the influence of the words we utter on our thoughts and those around us is SO important. “We’ll never raise that much.” “Why is this so hard?” “I do all the heavy lifting around here.”

Our words are containers of power for ourselves and others.

Personally and professionally.  Do donors want to work with folks who say one thing to their face and another behind their back? “Pick the low hanging fruit?” Really? How we talk about our donors gets into our thinking and influences the authenticity of our relationships. Here are my alternative words for our common fundraising terminology.

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I believe that our inner game determines our outer game. We too often look at the fruit and aren’t happy –but we fail to look at the roots that produced the fruit!  When we sharpen our awareness of what we think we can choose to change it!  It’s a life-long practice, but I believe nothing is more important than to manage your mindset.

Bottom Line: we can manage our mindset and attract MORE good results into our lives.

It’s why I spend an entire morning on mindset tools at my MORE Major Gifts workshops! Join me June 12-13 in Chicago. I think you’ll think, it’s a great workshop!

“We become what we think about!” Happy Thinking!

Invest in Joy!

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I Promise…

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Did you notice how these two words made you feel?

For our families, friends, donors, colleagues and boards, “I promise” is a powerful tool for building trust in a relationship.

  • “Son, I promise I’ll get off early Friday, and we will get an ice cream, just us two.”
  • “Honey, I promise after this big project is done, we’ll go out to a nice dinner.”
  • “I promise to share how (board member) Alice’s visit with John and Martha went at our next meeting.  We are grateful to Alice for arranging this.”
  • “I promise to call when I get back out to this area so we can connect again.”
  • “I promise to let you know how your project is going before the end of next month.”

There is POWER in “I promise.”

In his work on building trust, Stephen M. R. Covey talks about the amazing relationship capital a promise can generate. It can build and fill positive emotional bank accounts between people.

The impact begins the second the words, “I promise” are uttered.  The anticipation of the promise coming true is part of the joy!

People remember a promise. Don’t you?

When I am beginning with a new prospective major giver…on that very first visit…I generally always have a promise or two to make in mind.  Is there a new easy and uplifting piece I can send? Is an event coming up they can easily be included in?   Is there some connection I can make for them?  A way to serve them?  These become, “John and Gladys, our spring garden tour is a delightful event. I promise to call you with the details just as soon as I know them, but certainly before April 1st.” Or, “I promise to get an invite out to you by next Friday so you can consider joining us.” Or “I promise to pass along your kind words to the Dean,” (and have the Dean acknowledge this).


I promise oneMaking a promise is such a simple, yet great tool. I create some actions that I can have at-the-ready for just this purpose. Other times I listen carefully for some unique way to connect, especially for those first visits that demonstrate a strong sharing of values, interests, and capacity with my organization.   If I want to make the second appointment easy to secure, “I promise to call you in May to continue this conversation just after Mother’s Day.”  Think about it. “Oh hello, John. This is Marcy. Remember I promised to call you this month so we could continue our conversation after Mother’s Day? Is next Thursday good?”

Honestly, when connecting is about me keeping my promise, it seems to flow so easily.

Here are a few tips to deepening a relationship with, “I promise.”

  1. Keep it simple. Pick a few things you (or your assistant) can easily do.
  2. Personalize as much as possible.  Your handwritten sticky note on the latest newsletter with, “I promised to send our latest news! I’ll give a call to see what you liked best.”
  3. Chocolate chip cookies are always a hit.  Even if they don’t eat them, they can share them.
  4. Remind them you are fulfilling your promise.
  5. Always come from a place of sincerity and authenticity – deepening their trust and connection with you and thus your organization.
  6. Make sure YOU control the delivery of the promise.  So, “I promise to have Betty get in touch.” Nope. You don’t control Betty.
  7. Be VERY specific in the timing of fulfillment.  “I promise to call early next week” is NOT good. “Early next week” may be Monday at 8 am for your donor and by Wednesday noon to you. Be specific.

There is, of course, one MAJOR contingency with making promises.

Broken promises break trust and hurt!

And, “I’m sorry, while heartfelt, can’t make up for the disappointment.

You MUST Keep Your Promises!

I had a donor say, “Oh Marcy, I was holding off going out because I remembered you promised to call today.”  YIKES – glad I got THAT done!

I promise twoIn both our personal and professional relationships – make promises to deepen the trust and confidence you inspire with the other person.  Make promises carefully and sparingly so that you can always honor them.  When something does cause you to break a promise, apologize and acknowledge you are sorry to have let them down.  For longer and stronger relationships, this will happen.

We are not perfect.  If the positive emotional bank accounts are high, it will be alright. If it is a new relationship or if this happens often, the depletion of the emotional bank account can be severe.  Don’t underestimate the power of the hurt, especially to a child, and be very guarded from making promises you consistently can’t keep.  It is far better to set true, but disappointing expectations than not deliver.  “With our program director out of the office, it will be at least two weeks before I can get back to you with that answer. I know you wanted the information sooner.”

If you use this tool sincerely and effectively, I promise you will see wonderful results in your relationships and the speed at which you can build trust.

Yes, I promise!

Invest in Joy!

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