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Archive for category: Nonprofit Fundraising

Coaching, Major Gifts, Mindset, Nonprofit Fundraising

Hear Ye Lads and Lassies!

St. Patrick’s Day is drawing near! YOU are SO LUCKY!

 

You get to be YOU!

Well…you could at least TRY green beer! “Marcy and the Highlights” band will be SIX-PIECE strong – all sons home – performing at the VFW – Shake your Shamrock! Drinking green beer (and helping veterans!)

 

Marcy's Family

 

Beyond the shamrocks and green beads – it’s another opportunity to pause and truly appreciate that we GET to skip under the rainbow and find the pots of gold that inspire a grander world.

 

YOU ARE LUCKY!

 

1. Mission with Meaning: You have a calling. You are part of something bigger—a mission that fills your heart and soul. Whether it’s feeding the hungry, advocating for equality, or protecting the environment – your work has purpose, and that’s something truly special.

 

2. Community Connections: In our nonprofit world, it’s all about people—connecting with volunteers, donors, beneficiaries, and fellow changemakers. Together, you’re weaving a tapestry of support and understanding, building a community that stands strong in the face of adversity, celebrates the progress made.

 

3. Empowering Change: Your work isn’t just about the numbers; it’s about the lives you touch and the stories you change. Every action you take—whether it’s raising funds, or lending a helping hand—has the power to empower others and create lasting change.

 

4. Adapting with Grace: Life throws curveballs, but you’re no stranger to rolling with the punches. When challenges arise, you embrace them with grace and resilience, finding innovative solutions and rallying together to weather the storm.

 

5. Overflowing with Compassion: At the core of it all is compassion—the driving force behind everything you do. Whether it’s a donor’s generous gift, a volunteer’s selfless dedication, or a colleague’s supportive smile, acts of kindness and compassion fuel your work and light up the world around you.

 

So, as you raise a glass to St. Patrick’s Day, take a moment to raise your heart in gratitude for the incredible journey you’re on. You’re not just making a living; you’re making a difference—a difference that ripples out and touches lives in ways you may never fully know. Here’s to you, and here’s to the boundless love and light you bring to the world each and every day. Happy St. Patrick’s Day!

March 13, 2024
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Coaching, Major Gifts, Mindset, Nonprofit Fundraising

2024 Time To TRANSFORM – Here’s how.

Tomorrow is your time to LEAP! Every four years.

Thinking back to four years back…February 2020. Yikes.

Still feeling 2020? Wherever you are in your journey forward from 2020, LEAP tomorrow to TRANSFORM in 2024! Whatever you’ve been down or frustrated about that has changed, is still a challenge, or is still hard…examine that thinking and use LEAP DAY tomorrow as the time to reset and TRANSFORM!

TRANSFORM in 2024! Reset and LEAP!

THIS IS YOUR YEAR TO DO IT!

Purposefully move away from transactions and towards relational fundraising…and life.

90% of our happiness is based upon the quality of our relationships

Research tells us that 90% of our happiness is based upon the quality of our relationships.This includes your donors, your colleagues, your family, your friends. Transactions can support connecting – an email, text, birthday card, newsletter, a direct mail piece, social media – but LOOK for ways to take time for phone-down, I-see-you connections. 

One of my clients took a major gift agreement – in person – to get the needed signature from the marketing department head. Sure – could have used DocuSign. But this way they met face to face, got to know each other better, and this deeper friendship has been key in moving a second 6-figure gift forward.

INSIGHT: Opt for creating deeper relationships over efficiency.

 

2. Be your own THOUGHT LEADER.

In this world of SO MUCH INFORMATION it can be easier to simply follow what others say – so called “thought leaders” or “influencers.”  Consider who is sponsoring a message. Are you being supported or shamed. “Good fundraisers, mothers, whatever do such and such.” Check in with YOUR values. Pause and evaluate what you are hearing. Use the unsubscribe key, shut it off, put it on pause if it feels out of sync with your values.

INSIGHT: Lead your OWN thoughts by questioning information for truth and alignment with your values.  

 

3. LEAD with strength and clarity. Provide options but then LEAD with your decision.

Post covid leadership calls us to be decisive and move forward with clarity. With your board, donors, team, kids…. collaboration is fine, but transformation comes by doing your homework, making a decision, and calling for action around your decisions.

INSIGHT: LEAD with strength and confidence.  

 

4. Automate everything you can based upon the steps that need to be taken.

Timeline ALL your events and opportunities to engage and share impact for the year on one spreadsheet. Then put specific action steps into place to delight and surprise your givers. Be sure to have copy proofing, distribution, messaging in place on the timeline. Look for bottlenecks, look for piggy-backing options. Look for whatever can be automated to remind you to take action.

INSIGHT: Automating processes supports you in taking personal action and creates more time for you to do it.

 

What I REALLY WANT for YOU.

Give yourself permission to take time out of today to consider, plan and put into place systems that will give you more time tomorrow. 

Don’t use your time to save money. Use your money to save your time. STOP, consider, and take time today to put into place what will give you more time and less stress tomorrow.

 

February 28, 2024
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Coaching, Major Gifts, Mindset, Nonprofit Fundraising

Happy Valentine’s Day and EVERY DAY!

 
 
 

 

LOVE

 

Invest in JOY®

 

February 14, 2024
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Coaching, Major Gifts, Mindset, Nonprofit Fundraising

Trends. Tactics or Truths – Focus on Truths

Some things never change.  And that is good.

An inbox overflowing with trends, tactics and what to watch out for now is overwhelming…and a bit scary.

Focus on what you know to be true.

Marcy by the Ocean!

(For me – a fun truth is that a few days by the ocean is so rejuvenating.)

After 4 decades of successfully inspiring major and mega giving as a front- line fundraiser, team manager, and coach/consultant I promise you there are some unchanging truths that bring personal and major giving success.

Foster genuine relationships is THEE most important piece for major donors.

The external environment will impact your givers, colleagues, and family, but they will overcome those influences for the key relationships and things they value in their lives.

When costs go up, turbulence abounds, or challenges emerge, we find a way to still be with family, attend places of worship, and support causes that are meaningful to us. Key to the decisions we make are a few lasting truths.

Truths you can count on in fundraising and life! 

TRUTH #1 Fostering genuine relationships is number one. ALWAYS. Transactions well executed can be part of overall relationships, but manipulation is always felt – even if not realized.

TRUTH #2 Trust STILL must be earned, and it is highly valued. Be trustworthy. This is your most important asset.

TRUTH #3 BIG visions unite and inspire.  That doesn’t necessarily mean high-cost, or broad sweeping. It means clear, and targeted on how you accomplish your purpose better and better. Big donors want big, bold visions but remember that can be fixing a former barrier to service, adapting to new ways to do what you do based on new knowledge as well as expanding your reach to serve more.

Your words reflect your beliefs. Speak as if your giver is sitting besides you - always.

TRUTH #4 Your words reflect your beliefs. Your words are containers of power. How you talk about your givers and colleagues reflects how you FEEL about your givers and colleagues.  This is really quite easy to implement. Always speak as if the person you are talking about is sitting beside you. Will you really say TO a donor, “We’re trying to get you to open your wallet!”  

TRUTH #5 Use data Artfully. Tracking data helps us KNOW our donors and they want us to know them – what they gave last, what is important to them, how they want their relationship to be handled.  But even with annual fund – help your data-driven colleagues see how these people are more than a number or statistic.  And we, as major gift fundraisers, need to be open to data that informs us how to more effectively and efficiently connect with, and serve, our donors.

TRUTH #6 Recognition does not equal appreciation.  For all time – how others value what we do and share that with us is key to our feeling appreciated and every person in our lives is different. And there are some ways that feel key for many. Care needs to be taken to not get caught up in the latest TREND for sharing appreciation – ask your giver, your spouse, your kids – what is meaningful to you!

A quick story – when the founder of one of my client’s organizations retired, the search yielded a horrific replacement, the board failed to act and most of the staff left – including the long-time fundraiser.  Giving plummeted.  A full 18 months later, the Board found new leadership, took charge, hired a new CEO, and recruited the former fundraiser back late in the year. Just hearing she was back – and on the strength of her relationships, giving poured in during December even without a year-end letter or emails or time for many visits!

 

Sunrise & Sunset

 

For as much as we all want to hop on the latest trends – and I am a forever learner – evaluate each from forever truths.  The sunrise and sunset. When you are true to you – when you sincerely value and respect others, when you push down the negative and snarky talk and focus on the gift you want to be in the world –LIFE IS GOOD!

Invest in JOY®

 

January 24, 2024
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Coaching, Major Gifts, Mindset, Nonprofit Fundraising

Reflect-Assess-Adapt-Plan – SHINE! It’s a new year!

 2024 is here! Let’s ROCK IT!

A new beginning – A new opportunity.

Mary, Marcy & Jayme at Fair

I’m bringing in the New Year keynoting for over 900 folks at the Wisconsin Fairs Association Centennial Convention – Celebrating the Past, Cultivating the Future. While they are all county fairs with many common traditions, their management, funding, budget, governance, and size are all very different – so at very different places with their fundraising. It’s been a total delight to be part of an experience that includes a carnival, talent showcases with great bands and comedians, and Fairest of the Fair Competition. These 35 contestants are both trained and compete in speaking, fundraising, marketing, and interviewing as part of a 3-day competition. I spent some time with them sharing confidence-building mindset tools, and of course, a 3-sentence ask!

Reflect – Assess – Adapt – Plan

For all of us, each new year gives us a fresh start – a chance to set aside time to “celebrate our past and cultivate our future!” 

Consider doing this….

Books on a shelf

1 – Reflect – where are you right now. CREATE “BOOKS” You can feel blessed and grateful and discouraged all at the same time. Write down key experiences – go through a calendar or your picture library – good and challenging. Picture all of these experiences in the past year or more as a book on a shelf.  All your failures and successes – Your year is on the shelf.

2 – Assess – what do you want to take with you into 2024?  Consider that now you find out a fire is coming that will burn the bookshelf! You have only a small suitcase you can pack with books!

3 – Adapt – what do you want to leave behind? Pluck from what you learned. If you know what went wrong – don’t do it again. What stories or thoughts held you back in 2023? “I’m afraid we won’t reach that goal.” “I don’t think I have time to do that.”

What if you could watch a film of the person you COULD HAVE BEEN if you hadn’t let the fear hold you back…the year without the excuse and stories.

Your fear and excuses don't have to go with you into the New Year!

“I’m too young.” “I’m too old.” “People tell me I can’t do it.” We don’t have the resources.” I have too much on my plate.” “It’s a rough economy.” “There’s too much competition for dollars.” My boss…  My spouse… My kids….

Turn these around.

Because I am young (or old) I have an advantage over everyone else!  More energy, more wisdom.

What do you want to take into the new year – let the rest burn.

4 – Plan – It’s January 2025. You look back and realize that 2024 was the BEST year you have ever had!  What is different? What happened?

WRITE OUT 3-5 RESULTS OF 2024 (yes 2024)

  • We have doubled our major gifts.
  • I am in the best shape of my life.
  • I do not dim my light to get along with others. I SHINE!
  • My board members have each contributed to our success.

Yours can have more specifics. The point is to say them often as if they have already happened. This becomes your compelling future. Consider why having these accomplished is so important to you – attach emotion to this. You will need this compelling future because stuff is going to happen. You will be disappointed. Craft this story and focus on it every day.

The biggest sales job you need to do is on YOU! Most people know what they DON’T want or like and they talk about it every day!  YIKES! Change that conversation in 2024!  Prove all the naysayers WRONG!

And…remember, I believe in you, I appreciate the work you do, and I am here to remind you of the special gift you are to the world!

Happy New Year!

Invest in JOY®

 

January 10, 2024
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Coaching, Major Gifts, Mindset, Nonprofit Fundraising

How to leave a great Voice Message!

I smile whenever I get a message from you.

 

 

In the rush to meet this month’s ambitious goals, the little things are often glossed over and not respected as the powerful relationship-building tools they are.

 

Let’s take leaving a message when you make a call for example.  Now I am NOT talking about the new voice chat. No. This is the good ole fashioned thing you leave when someone doesn’t pick up!

I’ll bet you are making a good many calls now – and perhaps even orchestrating a board or volunteer thankathon or gift-reminder call project. Often these calls will go to a giver’s voice mail. 

Are you and your callers ready for what happens after the beep?

Here’s what you need to remember to leave an Artful Message!

Artful Voice Message

 

TEN TIPS for an Artful Voice Message

1. Define the purpose of the call.

If this is “just” a thank you – it should be JUST a thank you….not an ask, next steps or anything else. If it is a reminder to consider a year-end gift – say that. Be clear and stay in your lane.

2. Script what you are going to say, practice it, then relax with it.

No one wants to listen to you read a script. You also don’t want to ramble on. (though honestly I’d take that over reading a script!) Be SO familiar with the words that you can be conversational in your delivery.

3. Remember your tone is key!

Your tone conveys meaning – caring, sarcasm, irritation, concern, and, yes, integrity. You want the listener to feel like you are enjoying this call, not checking them off a long list of calls to make. When you authentically care about your message it comes through in your tone. Ah…but same when you don’t really care.

4. This message is for a real person.

You may or may not personally know all the people you call. That’s ok. Either way you are leaving a message for a real person. Pause before a call to say the name. If you do know them, picture them in your mind. Smile and feel gratitude to be able to reach out to them.

5. Be a real person.

You may have 20 of these to make, but each one is an opportunity for you to be genuine. Don’t get concerned about needing to be “professional.”  Of course you don’t want to be flip or rude – but you also don’t want to be stiff and formal. Consider how you care about the mission you are representing – the values you must share with the person you are calling – the chance you have to show you care and deepen a relationship.

6. Pick a pace that is comfortable to listen to. Not too fast – not too slow.

You may be saying this for the 10th time – it’s the first time they are hearing it. Not too fast – rather a comfortable speaking pace.

7. Calling you back.

If you are a volunteer, it depends on your comfort getting a call back. For staff, more likely you will want to give people a way to reach back out to you.

8. Make the message long enough to get the message across.

30 seconds to a minute is usually enough depending on the call purpose.

Happy Dog!

9. Some examples. (I’m using my client, the Michigan Animal Rescue League as an example. You are very smart and can adapt!)

Thank you

 “Hello, Gladys. Happy Holidays! This is Bill Smith and I’m delighted to serve on the Michigan Animal Rescue League Board. Your support means so much as we care for the animals we rescue. Thank you! (pause) Thank you for partnering with us. I am sincerely grateful. Gladys, no need to call me back, but if you do have any thoughts for me you can reach me at 608-772-xxxx. That’s (more slowly) 608-772-xxxx. Again, my thanks to you for being our friend and supporter. Best wishes for a bright and happy Holiday!”

 

Consider a year-end gift

“Hello, Gladys. It’s almost New Year’s eve! For many of our Michigan Animal Rescue League friends, it’s time to make your gift to support our caring work. This is Bill Smith, a member of the board. It’s important to me that you have everything you need to accomplish the gift you wish to make yet this year. You can call me back at 608-772-6777. That’s 608-772-6777. Or you can go to our website at www.marl.org and get connected there. Whatever you decide, know that we appreciate you and your partnership with us. Thank you and have a happy, happy holiday!”

Shorter

“Hello Gladys! It’s Bill Smith, a board member from the Michigan Animal Rescue League. I just want to say thank you for your generosity… and your caring. May your holidays be merry and filled with good times with your favorite four-legged friend!”

Shorter

“Hello Gladys! Our animal rescues thrive because of your generosity. Thank you for considering a gift to the Michigan Animal Rescue League yet this year.  Probably easiest to go to www.marl.org to make a gift. This is Bill Smith, a MARL board member. Know that whatever you decide, we appreciate having you part of our family and wish you happy holidays!”

Shorter

“Gladys – Bill Smith here from the Board of the Michigan Animal Rescue League. You make life so much better for our animals and the people they love. Thank you and happy holidays!”

 

10. Common mistakes to avoid and how to fix them.

  • Talking too fast to be understood. SLOW down. Breath before you start.
  • Talking too far away from the phone to be picked up clearly.
  • Sounding like you are reading a script.
  • Sounding like you are irritated with this whole thing!
  • Forgetting to actually say, “Thank you!”
  • You just want money.  Believe me, it comes through loud and clear.
  • Trying to do too many things in this simple touch – confusing and overwhelming.

Easy way to fix it all?? 

  • Be fully into the call. SMILE when you talk!
  • Begin by remembering why this mission is dear to you.
  • “See” a person on the other end and care about them.
  • Look at this as a way to create a deeper relationship.

Marcy Happy Holidays!

 

Our calling to serve non-profit missions thrives because of your generosity, caring and talent. Please always remember how deeply I value OUR relationship and the belief we share in artful and respectful fundraising. May you feel my love. Thank you! Joy to you! Happy Holidays to you!

 

Invest in JOY®

 

December 13, 2023
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Coaching, Major Gifts, Mindset, Nonprofit Fundraising

Thanksgiving in 3 Steps

Give Thanks

I am thankful for YOU in my life!  

Tomorrow we gather to be thankful!

Just the thought of it makes me smile.  A whole day when we intentionally give thanks!

Here’s Thanksgiving in 3 Steps…..

1. Focus your thinking on being thankful.

Your inner world creates your outer world. When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change. Walking through the day focusing on giving thanks will shift your focus to all the things you have to be thankful for. That will lift you up. It’s that simple. But not always easy to do!

2. Take inventory on how you are doing on your life vision.

A life vision is not a goal. It’s a vision. It doesn’t have data or a deadline. It’s that mark you want to leave on the world. It’s that line in your obituary that sums up who you were. My vision is to inspire myself and others to be their best selves. I am thankful that rarely a day passes when I don’t hear from someone that I am doing just that …with my coaching, my words in passing, a smile or my music.  What’s your life vision?

3. Remember that all disappointing circumstances are temporary.

Stock prices falling, chocolate prices rising, coming up short when you are comparing yourself to others, decisions that you’d like back to make again, illness, or being disappointed by others are all just experiences to help you refine how to best live your vision. They are temporary. You learn from them. They are a needed ingredient on the life-long path where you are creating your life!

Now here’s the best part. EVERY DAY can be Thanksgiving!  Focus on what you are grateful for – it beats down fear. Remind yourself you have a purpose – it will guide you. Manage challenges as temporary. Smile. Take a step. Enjoy your remarkable life.

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You have a calling. You do remarkable work. You give. You inspire giving. You propagate joy. An honor and delight to walk along beside you! Thank you!

Happy Thanksgiving!

Invest in JOY®

 

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